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Thursday Thanks (a day late…) – Pam Slim

Tuesday, August 31st, 2010

This week’s Thursday Thanks goes to Pam Slim and Escape from Cubicle Nation. Pam is a great coach, with a great niche: helping corporate refugees to escape cubicle hell and start their own businesses. She is also incredibly sweet, when she was in town for a conference, she met with me for coffee and gave me bucket-loads of great free advice on the coaching biz. Lastly, she wears great Southwestern jewelry, and I appreciate that because I do, too (but hers is better)

If you are yearning to be free from corporate serfdom, check out Pam’s site, her book, her classes, everything, and she will get you on your way!

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Friday Thoughts August 13

Friday, August 13th, 2010

Jason Seiden has a great post here about low-hanging fruit. Basically, he says, low-hanging fruit is uninspiring.

‘I go apple picking every year with my family, and every year, I hear the same refrain: “Daddy, I want that one, up there! Can you put me on your shoulders? Pleeeeaaaase?” My kids don’t want to pick low hanging fruit, they want to pick the best fruit, wherever it happens to be on the tree, and—no surprise here—it usually ends up being up near the top, where fewer people can reach.’

I gotta agree, and yet that is a phrase we hear in meetings all the time, it seems to be code for “what is easy? what is low-risk?” Yet the easy, low-risk stuff is seldom the good stuff. Anyway, great metaphor for how corporations think. I don’t know about you, but I want to feel inspired, and climbing to the top of the tree for the big juicy apple is more inspiring than looking at low-hanging fruit (that others have probably already passed up…for some reason).

’nuff said, carry on, and be inspired and inspiring!

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How Perfect Do You Need To Be?

Thursday, March 11th, 2010

OK, so we all want to be perfect, it would be awfully nice not to EVER make mistakes, but let’s get right down to it, how perfect do you need to be? My belief is that some people have a higher need to be perfect than others, and some jobs have a higher need to be perfect than others, so let’s match them up.

Some things need to be pretty close to perfect. We want perfection in a brain surgeon or air traffic controller, we want electricity to be on 100% of the time, you get the idea. And some people get REALLY upset when they make a mistake and will practically kill themselves to be absolutely flawless, let them be brain surgeons and air traffic controllers and managers for the electric company.

Other projects are actually hampered by the need to be perfect. Jobs that require creativity and innovation come to mind. If you are doing something new, by definition there is uncertainty over how it will turn out, and if you limit your energies to those projects that are close to 100% guaranteed to succeed, you will find yourself…severely limited. Entrepreneurs, artists, inventors, designers, marketers belong to this category. For that matter, I belong here too. I would much rather create 10 new products, of which 7 are failures, 2 are pretty good and 1 is a runaway success, than roll out three tried and true products. That’s me, the brain surgeon would probably go nuts in this environment, and I would go nuts in theirs.

So, bottom line, know your preference, know the requirements for the job you are in so you can act accordingly, and lastly, respect those who disagree. Yeah, I like to take risks and I’m comfortable with failure, but I respect that the air traffic controller disagrees with me.

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What to Wear, Detailed Rules

Thursday, February 18th, 2010

OK, for those of us who thought that fashion was too confusing, and so we limit ourselves to dockers and polo shirts (or blue jeans and T-shirts), Dustin Wax at LifeHack did some research, geek-style, and came up with a wonderful list of rules of fashion for men. It’s basic, yet comprehensive. I wish I had had a simple list like this to hand out when I was selling men’s suits after grad school. If you want SERIOUS help with your wardrobe, let me know, I enjoy that sort of thing…

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